One of the highest values for me is my FREEDOM.
I have spent a fair part of my life in #limiting myself from things that I actually really enjoy doing.
You see, I grew up in the environment, where #suffering and struggle is a way of life, so I have adopted it.
People from my culture love to struggle and complain, so unless you complain- something is wrong with you.
People connect over #complains and it’s the way of life.
I have realized that I am different from other people from my environment quite early in life and it caused me #physical and emotional abuse, including bullying at school, #bullying from my “friends”, even abuse at home.
I constantly had to be alert, watching where the next attack will be coming from.
It was pretty tough.
So I built lots of walls around me, isolated my emotions, not to be hurt.
I was lonely. I wanted #love. I wanted #affection, yet I never allowed myself to receive it, as it would hurt too much when it’s taken away.
It took me to go through the death of my father, for my spiritual awakening to take place, where I got cracked open and could experience raw emotion.
Now I #learned how to feel safe in my emotions and allow myself to feel. In my body. In my mind. In my spirit.
Everyone is on their journey, yet you do not have to wait for something significant to happen, to get connected to your soul.
You can do it by #choice.
You can choose #FREEDOM.
You can choose LOVE.
You can choose INTIMACY.
You can choose everything your heart desires.
It’s already yours!
The first step is to actually admitting to yourself that you actually #DESIRE.
Desire has no logic, has no right or wrong, desire doesn’t have morals. Desire just is. Desire is choosing you. You do not choose your desire.
Just think about it: Have you ever liked a partner of your friend?- you know that it is wrong, yet, you still like them. You do not choose to like them. You just do. And nothing is wrong there. This is an example of Desire is choosing you.
Living Desire led life is a very disciplined practice. You can always choose what Desires you are following though and which ones you allow to pass by. Very important Is not to push them down, as they will always come up.
It’s important to acknowledge your desires and then make a conscious decision, whether you are going for it or now. Whatever it is.
There is no space for looking for logic behind the decisions, no space for doubt – because if you are not a full YES- your are a NO!
It is scary in the beginning and then you learn to enjoy the ride of unexpected action and be detached from outcome (that’s a super skill I teach my clients right here!)
Most of people say it’s dangerous- I call it adventurous.
Most people won’t understand what it’s like follow your dream, as they live in fear of their limitations.
Now, you have a choice:
A) Living the life that you desire
b) Stay safe where you are
Which one do you choose?
You see, either choice is a choice and it’s YOUR CHOICE. There is no right or wrong. There is only NOW and how do you choose to be in the NOW.
Over the past 2 years I have worked with hundreds of people, and there is one thing that was in common.
Would you like to know what is it?
Every single person that I have worked with has Desire for real intimacy in their life.
You see, we all have biological need for intimacy. Look at the new born baby. All they want Love and affection, to be fed and nurtured.
When we grow up we still have that need to be loved and nurtured, just we very often deny in that need to ourselves. Because of fear of rejection, because of fear looking stupid, because we don’t want to be hurt and so many other fears that we create just to hide from intimacy of our humanity.
When our need of intimacy is not met, we create illnesses, we create addictions and we settle for people who actually are totally not good for us. To maintain at least little crumbs of intimate connection we can get, even when after it makes us feel unworthy or used.
We put people on pedestal, who give us some kind of attention, we allow them to walk over us, we allow them to brake our boundaries and then we start resenting them for doing so, yet still coming back into unhealthy dynamics, thinking that they will change.
The only thing is, they will never change.
The only person who needs to change is YOU.
Confidence and self-love are at the core of everything that we do. When you start to truly love yourself and put yourself first, respect your desires- your world will start to change.
When you confident in yourself, you can allow intimacy in your life. It is not a sign of weakness any more. It becomes fundamental part of your relationships.
The people around you will feel the respect you have for yourself radiate off you, as you exude confidence and know you are truly worth everything amazing that life has to offer.
I have had the honour of working with men and women from all over the world to overcome the trauma of some of life’s toughest obstacles, such as sexual abuse, emotional abuse, childhood traumas, grief, depression, low confidence, and low self-esteem. If you feel like it is time to start embracing your true beauty and build a life that you love, don’t wait any longer!
The life you love is available to you NOW! It’s closer than you think!
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My life’s mission is to bring people tools to create more intimate lives, filled with Love and Connection.
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